No one wants to be a vegetable in bed, nor do men want to have sex with one. Sex is the major reason why marriages and relationships fall apart and if you feel like yours need saving, then follow these rules and you'll be sure to keep your man hooked for the rest of your time together.
- Be all done up - Sure you could do all kinds of different positions and maybe give him the best BJ of his life, but if you look like you just came out of a farm, he'll probably just be closing his eyes throughout the entire act. So be sexy, wear heels, wear a little lingerie, let down your hair, wear some make-up(at least a little lipstick), shave, put lotion on so that your skin is silky smooth, brush your teeth, maybe a little nail polish too if you've got the time. If you don't look the part, you're already losing 3 points on the sex scale from 1 to 10.
- Lure him into bed the right way - “Hey honey, wanna have sex?”. This may seem convenient for the both of you as it is forward and oh so clear, but honestly how do I put it to you gently? Yeah NOT sexy. Here is one of the right ways to do it: After you are done with number one above, go find your man. When you do, face the wall by standing 2 feet away from it with your right hand flat on it, your legs slightly apart. Make eye contact with him and grab the back of your hair as if you were making a fist. Lick your lips. Remember, this is all happening while you are looking at him with a sexy look. After that, slide your hand down your breast and then onto your butt. Slap it! Yes I said slap it! Now that you really have his attention, give him the “Come here” sign with your index finger. Slowly start heading to the bedroom. DONE.
- Have porn attitude - Nothing says I love you better than a fuck me look. Do your man a favor and have the bitch attitude in bed. Bite your lips while making deep eye contact with him, whisper nasty things in his ear, tongue kiss him with passion before making your way all the way down, all the while staring at him with a sensual look. Flipping your hair once from one side to the other while he doggystyles you can make things a little more alive. You can even bite your lower lip gently right after that, making him feel like you're really into it.
- Don't let the man do all the work - Even if you're in a position where he has full control, such as doggystyle, you can also move back and forth while following his rhythm. If you really don't feel like moving, at least show a little effort and touch yourself and moan a little louder, that's the least you can do.
- Watch porn and more porn - This may sound crazy but the more you watch porn, the better you will become sexually. Not only will you learn more tricks and techniques, but you will also become more comfortable with the idea of doing something that you were uneasy about doing in the first place. Me for instance, sperm had always been an issue. Having it spread on my face was one thing, but to have a man shoot his juice inside my mouth was unthinkable. Now after having seen so many women getting the “money shot”, I feel like it isn't a big deal anymore. And since I've become more comfortable with the thought of doing that, I let my man do it anytime he wants. I guess you can say that getting over an idea starts with appeasing your mind, and when it comes to sex, porn is the best way.